As a guy who has gone through a divorce, I always feel a special need to help those who are about to go through that process or who have gone through it and are in the process of rebuilding. I joke that prior to my divorce, I was on track […]
A Qualified Domestic Relations Order divides up retirement assets. You may think yours is fair, but a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst could save you a lot of grief, and money. When “I do” becomes “I don’t,” you might think it’s over, but it’s not. Eager to sign and get it over with?
When you’re getting divorced, it can be hard to prevent anger, fear, or grief from taking hold. But keeping your cool (at least most of the time) is the best way to ensure that the proceedings go as smoothly as possible. “Divorce should be more of a business transaction than an emotional one,” says Linda A.
March, a month that marks the changing of the seasons, more recently has become known as the peak month for couples to change their marital status. According to a University of Washington study, more couples nationwide file for divorce in March than in any other month.
I’ve learned a lot of lessons over the last 20 years since my divorce. It dawned on me recently that even though I didn’t have a divorce party (just wasn’t in the mood) it doesn’t mean that I can’t mark the 20th anniversary of my divorce in some way.
Don’t use the legal process as a weapon to try to get even with your spouse. When we’re hurt or betrayed, our natural reaction is to get angry. So if your marriage is ending in divorce, it’s perfectly normal to feel anger, resentment – even hatred for your spouse.
I was on the receiving end of this message in my divorce so I can certainly share what NOT to do! My ex-husband really blew it. He was so afraid of how I would react, knowing he also had to tell me he had been having an affair, that he planned it all out and …
Divorce feels as though everything you thought you knew about your life and your future is suddenly flipped upside down. It can be a struggle to make sense of the pieces that remain. In an effort to retain some semblance of normalcy, it’s common to want to stay in the house that you are used …
The Secret of Change Is to Focus All of Your Energy, Not on Fighting the Old, but on Building the New – Socrates The same can be said for divorce. In fact, it is my belief that releasing the old story or hurt or pain is the most vital and self-loving thing you can do.
For guys going through divorce, there’s no better advice than from those who’ve been there. But when it comes to open, honest talk about splitting up, we don’t often hear from men — and that’s why we launched a new series called When Men Divorce .